Everyone has a desire to be financially stable. Though there is nothing wrong in it but the in order to achieve our financial goals sometimes we try too hard and thus make some mistakes. These mistakes can cost us a lot, sometimes resulting in a financial situation where you would feel no way out . Its important to note that not only a middle class man but also someone of a higher status can loose all his savings & assets due to a single financial mistake. Here are some important reasons which leads to loss of money :
1. Trusting your friend/relative: Many times you get advice from your friends & relatives. However you should be selective in choosing whom to trust. There are various reasons for this : (i) Your friend/relative might have a personal reason behind the advice. Usually insurance, mutual fund,real estate agents etc. advice something which does not suit you.They get a good commission for it. (ii) If your friend/relative does not have sufficient money to support his business or investment he might ask you to join his business and promise you great returns. He may never tell you the real reason behind asking you to join his business. On the other hand he might tell others that he is helping you by making you join his business. (iii) Lending money to your friend/relative because he is in great need can sometimes be a bad option. One of my friend once said ' I never show all my cards '. This means that although he may be asking money from you but he certainly had many other options of getting it. When you lend money the borrower acts like a domestic cow but when you ask for it he becomes a wild tiger. Trust me in most cases you will not get a single penny back or you may get it after a lot of time and that too in parts. More than 90% of people all over world have lost money lending to a relative. (iv) Sometimes your best relative/friend can also lead you to make a financial mistake. This happens when your best relative/friend is a member of a fraud company. Although he may not have a bad intention but he recommends products of his company because he himself feels that its the best available in the market. By the time he realises that he was given a false information he already leads his relatives/friends into financial trouble. This mostly is the case with the fraud companies selling false financial products. (v) In some rare circumstances cheating brothers, sisters and even wife has led to a financial destruction of an individual.
2. Copying others idea: Copying others idea/formula is not always a good option. Others might be doing something which suit their habbit, knowledge and experience. But it may not be suitable to you. A share market research analyst may be earning millions of rupees by investing in stocks. But if a wealthy transport buisnessman who is absolutely new to stock market starts to invest in stocks he might loose few millions.
3. Loan: Before taking a loan for a business or investment its very important to ascertain, what if your plan goes wong. It should'nt happen that you have no means of paying the EMI if your new business fails. Such a situation can suck all your savings, assets and can make you bankrupt. Also you will end up featuring in list of defaulter's. So next time when you apply for loan from any financial institution you may find it very difficult to get it.
4. Choosing a wrong financial adviser: Most persons are not good at managing money. So they look for a financial adviser for themselves. In most cases the person advising you is your relative, friend, from your bank, from a financial company. Sometimes these may not be the best for you as either they have nothing to loose ( in the case of friend/relative ) or they want you to invest more because its actually good for their pocket ( in the case of bank agents, financial company agents ).
5. Stress: Stress caused by society ( relatives, neighbours,work place etc. ), financial loss, loss of a close family member, career threatening accident or illness etc. can make even the smartest of person take wrong decision.
How To Avoid it ?
1. Do not let others know about how much money you are earning. Though actually you may not require money from others but always show that you need money for your new house, car, business, child's marriage or higher studies.
2. Learn to say no to others. Be very selective when lending money. Make sure that you are lending your money to someone who has good bank balance, asset to his name. So that later on your relative/friend cannot say that he has no way to return it. Always lend money after consulting your elders or well wishers. Listen to what they think about the borrower's intentions. Lend money in the presence of others or you can tell the borrower that others also know that you have lend money to him. The best way to say a NO to your friend/relative is that you have invested all your savings in stock market, mutual fund or a business and presently you are at a huge loss.
3. Do not blindly copy others idea.
4. Choose a financial adviser who has a good reputation among his clients. It might take some time to find such an adviser but the end result will be a satisfying one.
5. Whenever you are under stress do not take an important decision whether its financial or personal. Give yourself some time to settle. Take advise of your seniors and elders.